Update Your Button Down (Without Becoming a Fashion Victim)

April 11, 2016

Turn your walk of shame into  a runway walk. Ok, maybe it is not a walk of shame maybe more like a walk to the grocery store when you haven’t done laundry but once again the IT girls of fashion have changed the typical boyfriend’s button down shirt into a fashion statement!

By wearing the men’s button down shirt backwards, it’s as if they have proven the Big Bang Theory. Vogue was doing backflips over how chic and stylish this new look has become. I am sure you have already seen it on a few different blogs but the question I am asking…would you dare to really wear the backwards look?

(Take a look here for style reference)

I tried it as I was preparing for my day and I did not like it, the cut of the shirt in the front looked frumpy and the sleeves didn’t fit right, the back is sexy but it looks a bit ridiculous to me… so with that said I thought of …

3 Ways to Update the Boyfriend Shirt

(without looking like a style victim)

  1. The Tunic


This look is simple…put the shirt on and wear it! You can tie a jacket around your waist to add a bit versatility to this look. I also flip the collar down so it opens up the center of the shirt when the buttons are undone (a little less modest).


2.  The Twist


This is pretty explanatory don’t forget about this 90’s essential!

Tie the two flaps in the front of the shirt together and you can decide just how much or little skin you want to show.


3. The IT Girl 


This is my favorite way to style a button down shirt– wear it off one shoulder or both. To accomplish this look it is good if you have a full coverage bralette, the one I am wearing has 2 straps on each side and 2 coming from the center of the bra over the shoulders, of course you can wear a tank top as well.

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The IT Girl vs. The Fashion Vicitm… the saga continues but do what is right for you! If you feel good in your clothes then you look good but sometimes you feel really uncomfortable and you look even better!

How do you feel about the backwards shirt trend?

OOTD Details

Shirt- Husband’s

Jeans- Zara, folded into capri style (HERE)

Shoes- Schutz (KIJA HERE)

Bralette- H&M (HERE)




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    Reply Pam April 11, 2016 at 2:30 pm

    I quite like these looks! the shirt can be worn in so many ways and I love the IT girl one the best! 😀
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    Reply Carina April 11, 2016 at 3:44 pm

    The IT girl is my favourite, but you look gorgeous in all of them. Honestly, I love the backwards shirt trend, it looks very pretty.

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    • Reply Bitemyfashion April 11, 2016 at 4:03 pm

      thanks! I am sure you can pull off the backwards shirt much better than I.

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    Reply Nina April 11, 2016 at 4:30 pm

    That backwards shirt on Leandra (from ManReppeler) looks ridiculous, like many other pieces on her, to be totally honest. So, I can’t imagine myself following that trend. I like how you styled Boifriend Shirt. xx

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    Reply Keri April 11, 2016 at 5:08 pm

    Awesome tips. Those shoes are hot, girl!!

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    Reply Maria | Looking Glass April 11, 2016 at 5:23 pm

    I like the backwards shirt look but I haven’t tried it out yet. I have tried the off the shoulder thing and that didn’t work out at all for me, it felt way too tight on the shoulders (I was doing this with one of my shirts though) and bunched up weirdly at the arm seams. Looks great on you though! I will have to play around with one of my boyfriend’s shirts for some extra fabric.

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    Reply Yuliya Oleynykova April 11, 2016 at 5:26 pm

    Loving your hair x
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    Reply Nada April 11, 2016 at 8:15 pm

    amazing ! 🙂

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    Reply francesca April 11, 2016 at 9:18 pm

    great ideas!


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    Reply Vanessa April 11, 2016 at 9:36 pm

    Love the button down, Falasha!! They are so crisp and pretty much go with anything!! Great styling!
    Happy Monday, love!
    xoxo, Vanessa

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    Reply Kathryn April 11, 2016 at 9:51 pm

    I love a classic button down shirt, and these updates on styling them are such fun ways to mix it up.

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    Reply Yvonne April 11, 2016 at 10:26 pm

    Simple button down is nice. lovely heels. beautiful!
    xo Yvonne

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    Reply Amber April 12, 2016 at 12:33 am

    I love these ideas! They’re effortlessly cool.

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    Reply Neti* April 12, 2016 at 3:20 am

    Love all the looks on you. My only problem with the button down is the gap between the buttons on me. Thanks for stopping le blog.

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    Reply Mica April 12, 2016 at 4:34 am

    Great ideas! I think it’s important to have fun with fashion but agree you shouldn’t wear anything your uncomfortable in, no matter how trendy it is! 🙂
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    Reply Shelly April 12, 2016 at 4:37 am

    Simple and chic! I love the shoes…great post!

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    Reply Lili April 12, 2016 at 5:04 am

    These are great ideas! I love the twist one, and those shoes! As for wearing it backwards I think it would look ridiculous on me as well. Though it looks great on some people.
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    Reply gail April 12, 2016 at 7:25 am

    I love wearing bf shirt!

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    Reply Laura Mitbrodt April 12, 2016 at 8:46 am

    You look so cute and summery
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    Reply Trang Do April 12, 2016 at 8:48 am

    Great ideas! You look stunning!
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    Reply jehan April 12, 2016 at 10:05 am

    great tips dear..

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    Reply Tamara April 12, 2016 at 10:53 am

    Oh, you look so stunning!!! I love your shoes so much, have a great day!

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    Reply Lilli April 12, 2016 at 2:07 pm

    love your ideas 🙂 love the “it girl” look you went for 🙂

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    Reply mari April 12, 2016 at 2:25 pm

    what a cool shooting. The baby blue shirt is fabulous

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    Reply Zarrah Jane Amagan April 12, 2016 at 2:50 pm

    You look amazing in that button down shirt dear
    I love how preppy you styled it.

    Have a great day!

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    Reply vera April 12, 2016 at 3:50 pm

    Such a great post, you are STUNNING!!

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    Reply Amy Arnold April 12, 2016 at 3:50 pm

    You make this shirt look so versatile and amazing!

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    Reply Jalisa April 12, 2016 at 4:31 pm

    Great post, girlie! I really love how the “it girl” style looks with the bralette underneath, so cute and a style I’d like to try! I also like the look of the backwards shirt trend, too, but it depends on the shirt because I personally think it can look awkward with some styles. Thanks so much for sharing and I hope you have a wonderful week ahead, beauty!


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    Reply Ashley April 12, 2016 at 4:33 pm

    Love how you styled this button down, lady- looking chic!

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    Reply Paola Lauretano April 12, 2016 at 5:09 pm

    Simple and chic… love your hubby shirt!!!!
    Kisses, Paola.


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    Reply misslovelyattitude April 12, 2016 at 5:32 pm

    i like all of them, so cute 🙂 but still chic 🙂

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    Reply yuka April 12, 2016 at 5:36 pm

    you heels are amazing!


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    Reply tr3ndygirl April 12, 2016 at 5:40 pm

    very glam look darling
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    Reply Blery&Ily April 12, 2016 at 5:52 pm

    Love your look.

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    Reply Stephanie April 12, 2016 at 6:06 pm

    Great ideas !! I have seen other bloggers do the backwards shirt and while it looked good on them, me? Not so much. Love your shoes!
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    Reply Kat April 12, 2016 at 6:20 pm

    Actually I like it wearing backwards, even if I’d never done it myself. I think you need the right shirt for it tho.



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    Reply Alyssa April 12, 2016 at 6:42 pm

    1st You are so gorgeous! 2nd Lovin your style ideas! 3rd Button down shirt is definitely a keeper.

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    Reply Marion van Zutphen April 12, 2016 at 6:56 pm

    Great article! I love the second and last ways 🙂

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    Reply Kathrine Eldridge April 12, 2016 at 7:19 pm

    Love how you styled this classic button down! Those heels are amazing!

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    Reply swati April 12, 2016 at 8:16 pm

    loved your hair dear……you look beautiful in the pictures….

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    Reply Julia April 12, 2016 at 8:39 pm

    Love this! Perfect for the walk of shame or walk of no clean clothes look hahah. Lovely photos by the way!

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    Reply Monica April 12, 2016 at 9:41 pm

    Great tips girl. You have gorgeous hair:)
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    Reply Kelsey Bang April 12, 2016 at 9:49 pm

    cute styling! those heels are so amazing!

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    Reply Mariam April 12, 2016 at 10:58 pm

    I don’t like the backwards shirt look at all and think the ideas you came up with are far better! Love all the ways your styled it – especially the It Girl look!

    xo Mariam

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    Reply Adi April 13, 2016 at 12:27 am

    I love all the variations. Very impressive!

    Adi xx

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    Reply Edye April 13, 2016 at 1:51 am

    Great tips girl! Your hair is SO pretty 🙂

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    Reply Diana April 13, 2016 at 1:51 am

    love your blouse


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    Reply Diana April 13, 2016 at 3:34 am

    I love all looks but the it girl is my favorite! Love your shoes too!
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    Reply Darlene April 13, 2016 at 3:50 am

    First of all you have an amazing hair! love that blue top on you!


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    Reply Jill April 13, 2016 at 3:55 am

    Perfect styling! Love the off the shoulder look!

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    Reply Claire April 13, 2016 at 5:01 am

    So chic!

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    Reply Xin April 13, 2016 at 5:07 am

    Nice! I love the off shoulder one!



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    Reply March and May April 13, 2016 at 6:25 am

    I love men’s button-down. Such a versatile item. But Ia m in love with your shoes. So gorgeous.

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    Reply Ambi April 13, 2016 at 7:21 am

    I love the classic button down shirt. love those heels 🙂

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    Reply Leta April 13, 2016 at 8:05 am

    I don’t think I would be able to wear the shirt backwards, it would look too weird for me. And feel for sure. I love your 3 ways of styling the shirt, the 3rd way is my favorite too.

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    Reply Mercy April 13, 2016 at 8:42 am

    You got it right with updating the boyfriend shirt as you’re looking great in it.


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    Reply Kiss & Make-up April 13, 2016 at 10:34 am

    Great ideas. The off-the-shoulder idea is very sexy.

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    Reply Nada April 13, 2016 at 10:38 am

    Great photos 🙂

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    Reply LindaLibraLoca April 13, 2016 at 11:27 am

    I don’t think I would wear my clothes backward, no matter how fashionable it is said to be.
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    Reply Aldora April 13, 2016 at 11:50 am

    Hey Falasha! You nailed this BF shirt styling completely 💙 Stay FAB ✨✨

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    Reply Rachel R. Maher April 13, 2016 at 11:57 am

    Love your dress style, amazing!

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    Reply Nati April 13, 2016 at 12:51 pm

    Nice tips! I also found the shirt backwards a little funny. I love your off-shoulder version!

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    Reply FASHION TALES April 13, 2016 at 5:39 pm

    I like the “It girl” look, and those fringe heels are lovely! /Madison
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    Reply Lindsey April 13, 2016 at 6:35 pm

    Those heels are everything, I love the fringe!

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    Reply Rena April 13, 2016 at 6:42 pm

    Thanks for the tips, I like your shirt!
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    Reply Jelena April 13, 2016 at 6:43 pm

    You look gorgeous! Also, very useful tips, I’ll see what I’ll look like with these. 😀


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    Reply evelyn April 13, 2016 at 7:26 pm

    love the idea and of course i love your style!
    have a great day

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    Reply carina April 13, 2016 at 8:21 pm

    Great look!


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    Reply Paula Loreti April 13, 2016 at 8:59 pm

    I love it!! So many great examples. You look gorgeous in every single one of them 🙂


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    Reply Euge April 15, 2016 at 10:40 pm

    This is a great post! You look great. I want to try the last option.
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    Reply Melanie April 21, 2016 at 1:04 pm

    Oh what a lovely outfit :-*

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