5 Tips to Look Sexy & Casual

June 8, 2015

There are so many occasions in life where you want to look sexy without trying too hard.  You need the outfit to be sexy enough that you do not disappear into the background but subtle enough so no one can say you are doing too much but haters going to hate. 

bite_my+fashion_all+white_zuerich I am a strong believer you can never be over dressed or over educated but I know the feeling when you show up to the causal party in the cocktail dress and everyone around you is in jeans and a t-shirt. I personally feel uncomfortable when I don’t know the dress code and we don’t always have the option to do the safe text to a friend… you know the one?

Me: What are you wearing tonight?

Friend: Those really cute jeans that make my butt look big and these new shoes.

Me: Send a picture!

Sometimes it’s Russian Routlette with the outfit choice so here are 5 Tips to do Sexy Casual (correct!)

bitemyfashion_black_blogger_all+white_casual 1.  Head to Toe Monotone

You can never go wrong in all black everything…

Monotone can be defined as:

Using a single neutral color such as black, light to medium grays, beiges, taupes, and off whites.

There are many ways to wear monotone. I like to mix fabric choices so if you wear all of one color try a leather jacket over a knit or silk top and denim pants. The mix of fabric will add dimension to the outfit. 
Another favorite is monotone with an accent color! So if you are wearing all white and you have a pop of color for an accessory one favorite is topaz jewelry. Here my pop is the black and red, your eyes are drawn to the red soles.

christian+louboutain_red_bottoms_all_whitE_bite_my_fashion 2. Add a Luxury Statement Piece

The killer shoes, the seasons “IT’ bag, the show stopping jewelry… but only choose one. Add one piece that is hands-down gorgeous. Whether it is your new shoes or the perfect Gucci Champagne handbag- this is the ooh lala factor.

christian+louboutain_red_bottoms_all_whitE_bite_my_fashion_zurich 3. Nothing too tight

Remember this is still casual. If you are wearing a grey catsuit you may very well be overdoing it.

4. Keep the Make Up Subtle

Only one thing on your face should be dramatic. If you love heavy eyeliner- do it but then nude lip and cheeks or if you like a dramatic lipstick color then do it- but  keep the eyeliner simple.

subtle_casual_make_bite+my+fashion_black_blogger 5. Accentuate your Best Feature

This is a command. If you have great boobs then wear a low cut top and cover up the rest of your body, if you have longs legs to envy then don’t be hesitant to still wear 4 inch heels and be the tallest in the room!

Hopefully these tips help you the next time you go out look stunning but still want to say…

“oh this old thing… I just threw this on” 

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OOTD Details

Shoes- Christian Louboutin

Handbag- I got it from Nordstrom Rack but Just Fab has it too!

Jeans- Levi’s

Top- Stradivarius, purchased in London

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    Reply Rosanna June 8, 2015 at 11:54 am

    Great tips!! I love your shoes and jeans, so chic!
    Have a lovely day 🙂
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    Reply Carrie June 8, 2015 at 12:21 pm

    great post, you look fab

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    Reply LINSEY SIJMONS June 8, 2015 at 12:21 pm

    Awesome tips! You look ah-mazing!

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    Reply greta June 8, 2015 at 12:23 pm

    And you’ve made it 😉 you really were amazing in this look!!!!


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    Reply Navya June 8, 2015 at 12:24 pm

    You have prefect dress sense.. Great tips..

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    Reply NERISSA June 8, 2015 at 12:59 pm

    you are so pretty and classy in white… white in white is really perfect on you.. great style and blog.


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    Reply Jenn June 8, 2015 at 1:01 pm

    Great post. You look great.

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    Reply vanessa June 8, 2015 at 1:32 pm

    lovely look!


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    Reply Kiss & Make-up June 8, 2015 at 1:42 pm

    Haha yeah I know the feeling, I often feel either slightly over or underdressed. Loving the outfit you have on here. Skinny jeans, heel and a flowy top are a favorite combo of mine 🙂 Great tips.
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    Reply Zarrah June 8, 2015 at 2:30 pm

    Lovely tips from a lovely person.
    So sexy indeed.

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    Reply Hilary Nirvana June 8, 2015 at 2:30 pm

    Love this post! thanks for the tip I can see that you are definitely the next style icon thanks for sharing
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    Reply Sophie June 8, 2015 at 2:32 pm

    I love it,sexy but not too much as you have stated.Your sunglasses go so well with the whites

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    Reply Michèle June 8, 2015 at 2:32 pm

    totally love the lace details of your top and also the leo bag looks very cool

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    Reply Danny June 8, 2015 at 3:06 pm

    White’s defenetly killing that look, you look awsome and very summer <3

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    Reply Lucy Van Dean June 8, 2015 at 3:30 pm

    Looking gorgeous <3
    Great post, one can never go wrong following the tips you shared!
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    Reply EastCoastChic June 8, 2015 at 3:36 pm

    Love the advice! And you look fabulous in the white on white!

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    Reply Kelsey&Kenecha June 8, 2015 at 4:56 pm

    Really great tips!! You look amazing!
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    Reply Jenny June 8, 2015 at 5:21 pm

    Lovely outfit 🙂

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    Reply Natalia Bosch June 8, 2015 at 5:32 pm

    Great photos!

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    Reply visitar pagina June 8, 2015 at 5:44 pm

    Awesome outfit! you are very beautiful!

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    Reply Denise June 8, 2015 at 6:07 pm

    I love your photos, I think you always look very beautiful! I agree with you, there’s never over dressed or over educated, that last one definitely not! I think that sometimes people think of an outfit and then something can happen and they decide to change (torn up, coffee poured on the dress, so on 🙂 And I agree with you, a statement piece and something not too tight – a must, for me, in fact!
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    Reply Coco June 8, 2015 at 6:08 pm

    Cute look darling! I love your shoes!!
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    Reply Ricmary June 8, 2015 at 6:09 pm

    Great post! You look so pretty 😀

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    Reply Jane June 8, 2015 at 6:31 pm

    Perfect all white look!
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    Reply Diana June 8, 2015 at 6:50 pm

    You look fantastic baby!

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    Reply sweetsimpleday June 8, 2015 at 7:38 pm

    Lovely top and pants!! That shoes is like a dream~~ u look wonderful!! Xoxo

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    Reply Anna June 8, 2015 at 7:38 pm

    Beautiful monochromatic style! Those pants fit you perfectly!

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    Reply alice June 8, 2015 at 7:57 pm

    Looks perfect!

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    Reply Rachel June 8, 2015 at 8:09 pm

    Great tips, love the first one. it’s foolproof.


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    Reply Andraxela13 June 8, 2015 at 8:14 pm

    How stunning! you look lovely, sweetie! kisses


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    Reply rakhshanda June 8, 2015 at 8:48 pm

    you look gorgeous in this all-white outfit!!
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    Reply Clare June 8, 2015 at 8:52 pm

    Yes! Great tips, couldn’t have written it better! Love the tips to make it sound like “Oh this? I just threw this on.” And yes, pick a trend piece and use just ONE not all. Don’t want to take away from the outfit itself!

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    Reply Colleen Welsch June 8, 2015 at 9:33 pm

    You are really rocking those jeans girl! I always like to make sure I’m not showing too much skin. If I’m showing a lot of leg, I cover up on top or vice versa!

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    Reply Alessandra June 8, 2015 at 10:07 pm

    Great tips! You look beautiful!

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    Reply Anna June 8, 2015 at 11:24 pm

    I adore your outfit !!! Everything from head to toe is amazing!!!
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    Reply Dora Toubanaki June 8, 2015 at 11:26 pm

    I love it! All white with great details!
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    Reply Stephanie June 9, 2015 at 12:06 am

    I love this outfit! You look great! Wonderful tips! 🙂
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    Reply Nora Minassian/Jacket Society June 9, 2015 at 3:30 am

    Love that feminine top, it looks great with the white jeans and the black sandals are fab!

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    Reply Jenny June 9, 2015 at 8:09 am

    You look amazing!!!


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    Reply Laura Mitbrodt June 9, 2015 at 8:17 am

    You look amazing, I love the all white!
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    Reply April Rose Pengilly June 9, 2015 at 8:53 am

    Great tips! And I love that handbag. 🙂
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    Reply Stefanie June 9, 2015 at 9:43 am

    You really do look hot in that white outfit, babe! And thanks for sharing your tips.

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    Reply Jordina June 9, 2015 at 10:13 am

    Amazing style!
    Love this combination, your top is so lovely!

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    Reply mahryska June 9, 2015 at 11:17 am

    nice 🙂

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    Reply Emmah June 9, 2015 at 11:50 am

    love your photo and looking super cool.

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    Reply Ashley June 9, 2015 at 12:59 pm

    Great tips, girlfriend- love you in these all-white look!

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    Reply Valentina June 9, 2015 at 1:50 pm

    love ths look!!!!
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    Reply Sugar June 9, 2015 at 5:28 pm

    Oh, my! Thanks so much for sharing your style secrets!! I will mosdef bear your tips in mind. xoxo

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    Reply GorisHelena June 9, 2015 at 5:30 pm

    wow, I really like your pictures ! xo
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    Reply Travelera June 9, 2015 at 9:45 pm

    Love the white look and sunglasses! Great outfit xx
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    Reply M June 10, 2015 at 2:57 am

    Love the white outfit! Great tips!

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    Reply Aibina June 10, 2015 at 9:26 am

    Love this style! Amazing! 🙂

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    Reply Shaira Manalo June 10, 2015 at 12:56 pm

    Thanks for these tips! I haven’t tried monotone dressing but I’d like to try sometime. I agree with accentuating the best feature. It makes the whole look sexy! 🙂 I love this outfit and how you carry it with confidence. You’re pretty 🙂

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    Reply Jess June 10, 2015 at 3:54 pm

    I hate showing up somewhere over dressed too. Great tips.

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    Reply Jennie June 12, 2015 at 11:20 am

    Such a nice post! This weekend I’ll go to a birthdayparty and I don’t know what to wear. So I’ll follow your cool tips to look great. Thank you!
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    Reply Missy May June 14, 2015 at 10:34 pm

    Great tips and I so agree with you. You look so gorgeous and I heart your sandals. 🙂

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    Reply Erica June 22, 2015 at 12:51 am

    Love it! Thanks for the tips girl! You really gave some great suggestions and totally have the whole sexy and causal thing down. 🙂


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    Reply carmen June 23, 2015 at 4:10 pm

    Hello Falaaha! You look sexy without sleazy! This is a classy sexy look and I will add this to Ladies in white as well!

    Have an awesome day my dear!
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    Reply Jehan M. June 27, 2015 at 5:34 am

    love the shoes
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    Reply kanwal ikram June 30, 2015 at 12:22 am

    Love your white jeans, they are all year around in fashion and look super trendy as well.

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    Reply kanwal ikram June 30, 2015 at 12:24 am

    White jeans looks good on you. They are all round the year in fashion.
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